First of all this is what happened...
Sofia Escobar, 27, took great offence at a passing comment made on the social networking website by a 48-year-old housewife about her rendition of the part of Christine in the current London production of Phantom of The Opera. The row started when the fan, who posts thoughts about theatre on Twitter anonymously, sent a message to a friend discussing the musical which ended: “Ah but U know I can't stand Sofia…”
The housewife has fewer than 200 people following her on Twitter, and her Tweet could only have been found by Escobar if she or an associate searched for her own name. The next day the actress responded out of the blue by sending the woman an apparently light-hearted message reading: “It's ok cause I can't stand you either ;) x.” However, Escobar went on to accuse the fan of being a cyber-bully, writing to her more than 3,800 Twitter followers: “Just because I'm a performer that gives people the right to insult me without me being able to defend myself? I don't think so. “My job doesn't make me super human and respect goes down well no matter what profession people have. And I won't be insulted and not stand up for myself. Just because im a performer it doesn't give you a free pass to bullying.”
She added: “I take criticism very well. But one thing is to criticise and one v different is to be offensive, disrespectful and mean. To me ‘I don't like her portrayal' sounds v dif [different] to ‘I can't stand her’.” Her boyfriend, the Spanish actor Gonzalo Ramos, also joined in, writing: “Lack of taste is ok, lack of education is just sad, something to think about cause u've already got some years behind u :).”
The housewife, whose Twitter user name is @SHkiyolove, apologised to the singer but made it clear she was bemused by the attention she had attracted. She wrote to Escobar: “Is that it? My remark to a friend offended u so much? Then I'm sorry. Of course I didn't meam (sic) u urself. I don't even know u.” She added: “Now, when I said to a friend ‘I can't stand Sofia’ about @sofia_escobar, I of course meant her perf [performance] in poto [Phantom of The Opera], not herself. Isn't it obvious?”
The fan, who lives in Twickenham, south-west London but has not been named, said the actress should have been able to take the criticism. “How can you get angry over such a stupid comment? It’s laughable,” she told the Evening Standard. "I can understand actors hating anything negative written about them, but to take it on a personal level like this? And against a mere punter like myself who only expressed her honest opinion as a theatre lover? “She has accused me of cyber-bullying but many people have now said to me that they think she is the one who is the cyber-bully.”
A spokesman for the show declined to comment.
This is what I think...
First of all I have think this story has been completely blown out of proportion! While I'd expect to see a few theatre fans write about this story online I would not expect this story to be printed in the Independent news paper - surely there are other, more important things for them to write about? I don't know how Sofia Escobar found the tweet as she was not tagged in it. This means it was not cyber bullying, simply a bitchy comment made by a fan. There is a lot of discussion and debate about who is at fault. I listened to an interesting debate on LBC 97.3 last night, hosted by Anthony Davis and there were listeners with opinions supporting both the Sofia and the unnamed fan.
I think fans should be more respectful of performers on Twitter and ensure comments are not personal and always about their opinions of an actors portrayal of a character. Also actors using social networking sites should simply ignore any rude comments and use their 'block' button!
